What to Know

So you’re probably thinking, “where do I start?  I can’t possibly afford all the building upgrades and we don’t even know anyone like this…  this is assuredly something only large churches can do.”

Below are some things to think about but contact Michelle to start working on your individualized plan.

Size doesn’t matter!

I firmly believe that your church size does not matter.  The person with special needs should be invited to join the body of Christ just like anyone else. This requires an attitude change about “church.” We are not complete without them!

You don’t need to do it all, now!

I believe you only need to do something.  That something will likely be very different than the church down the road.  God has a specific plan for your church in how it relates to the community, and you need to spend some time in prayer to figure out what that is.  It is certainly a huge step to make a commitment to families with special needs.  You need to create a plan, but don’t overthink it to the point of inaction.  What do you need to do to be sure everyone is ready to welcome whomever comes through your door at any moment?

  • Can everyone access the restrooms?
  • Will those with persnickety hearing aids be able to fully experience worship?
  • Can everyone access your place of worship?
  • Will anyone make them feel unwelcome?

Some Ideas

Ministry doesn’t only have to happen on Sunday morning!  Think about:

  • Sponsoring workshops on Advocacy, Language/Behavior Supports, Record Keeping, Safety, and Future/Estate Planning
  • Starting a small group fellowship/support group
  • Establishing a “sensory friendly” worship hour
  • Offering a respite morning
  • Building a playground accessible to those with mobility limitations and even adults!

This is certainly not meant to be an exhaustive list.  We’ll talk about the resources around you and create a plan to specifically address your communities needs.

Watch wonderful things happen when…

You go to them!  They are not going to come to you just because  you put a blurb on your outdoor sign.  Think about:

  • Volunteering to cover a water station at a 5k race for research or charity
  • Attending a local conference on special needs
  • Volunteering at a local CHKD or other Hospital Organization working with childhood diseases.
  • Seeking out your local chapters of the Autism Society of America, or United Cerebral Palsy, or any other charitable organization for those with physical, developmental, or mental challenges.
  • Contacting your local social services agency and find out how you can connect with foster children or a family with special challenges.

Again, this is not meant to be an exhaustive list.  Every community  is different and will have their own avenues to explore.  The main thing is getting out there to connect.

WARNING: Be prepared for them.  Your people must be ready.  Your facility must be able to welcome them.  Don’t reach out to them only to reject them at the door…